I definitely want to get women’s perspective on this article as well as men’s….
Before you begin to make assumptions. Women like to date/be around men who lead. Now, what exactly do I mean by this? Women like men who take charge. Take charge in their personal lives but also, when they are dating and have been married to a woman for many years. I always like to mention this simple example. When you’ve been dating your girlfriend or have been married to your wife for many years let’s be honest things can get stale and not that exciting over time, it happens and that’s okay. Trust me it happens in all relationships, but that’s the whole point of communication and being able to talk about your needs and wants years into a relationship. You have to keep things exciting, and that comes from both sides of any relationship.
“Well, honey what would you like to do for fun tonight, etc”
I always hear the same response from most women, “eh I don’t know, or I don’t care.” Now this phrase could be talking about fun things that couples are doing on the weekends, or just future plans in general for any specific occasion.
Just a side note that I wanted to mention. If a girl you just started dating or have been with for a few months brings up something in the future and it involves you, take that as a good sign (she most likely sees a future with you whatever that may be).
But back to my main point. Take charge. Lead. Not in any way coming off as demanding, but have a focus in life and your woman will definitely recognize it. Have goals, whether that be professionally or personally. Work towards them. The woman you have in your life will notice and respect your more, but even more importantly people around you will begin to notice what you’re up to.